Everybodydoesn‘thavetoloveme。無須人人都愛我
Noteveryonehastolovemeorevenlikeme。Idon‘tnecessarilylikeeverybodyIknow，sowhyshouldeverybodyelselikeme?Ienjoybeinglikedandbeingloved，butifsomebodydoesn‘tlikeme，IwillstillbeokayandstillfeellikeIamanokayperson。Icannotmakesomebodylikemeanymorethansomeonecangetmetolikethem。Idon‘tneedapprovalallthetime。Ifsomeonedoesnotapproveof1)me，Iwillstillbeokay。
Itisokaytomakemistakes。犯錯誤沒什麼大不了的
Makingmistakesissomethingwealldo，andIamstillafineandworthwhilepersonwhenImakethem。ThereisnoreasonformetogetupsetwhenImakeamistake。Iamtrying，andifImakeamistake，Iamgoingtocontinuetrying。Icanhandlemakingamistake。Itisokayforotherstomakeamistake，too。Iwillacceptmymistakesandalsothemistakesthatothersmake。
OtherpeopleareokayandIamokay。互相尊重
PeoplewhodothingsthatIdon‘tlikearenotnecessarilybadpeople。TheyshouldnotnecessarilybepunishedjustbecauseIdon‘tlikewhattheydoordid。ThereisnoreasonwhyotherpeopleshouldbethewayIwantthemtobe，andthereisnoreasonwhyIshouldbethewaysomebodyelsewantsmetobe。Peoplewillbewhatevertheywanttobe，andIwillbewhateverIwanttobe。Icannotcontrolotherpeopleorchangethem。Theyarewhotheyare;wealldeservebasicrespect。
Idon‘thavetocontrolthings。我無須控製一切
IwillsurviveifthingsaredifferentthanwhatIwantthemtobe。Icanacceptthingsthewaytheyare，acceptpeoplethewaytheyare，andacceptmyselfthewayIam。ThereisnoreasontogetupsetifIcan‘tchangethingstofitmyideaofhowtheyoughttobe。ThereisnoreasonwhyIshouldhavetolikeeverything。EvenifIdon‘tlikeit，Icanlivewithit。