When my voice just fell, she couldn\\u0027t help start to cry. She said that at the time, everyone did not know that her husband already had a girlfriend. On the bright side, there was an obvious object - this is her husband\\u0027s character.
I said to her: \\\"Since it has been adjusted, everything you have just seen becomes a past tense. In fact, you also knew that your husband had such a personality. You still chose him because he has some advantages that you highly recognize. Right? \\\" She said yes. But she didn\\u0027t say anymore, just kept crying silently.It can tell that the girl has been suppressing her emotions all the time, always thinking and serving others in a thoughtful way.She said that in fact, in the past two years, her career has increased, and her mind has been on two children. Both of them are very good to each other, but they cannot communicate further more.
In addition, she found that there is always a female colleague in his mobile phone, but there is never a chat record. After her husband was promoted, the company offered him a new phone with a new number. The first day the phone came out, her husband made a phone call. It was a strange phone number with no name and no number saved.Her instinct tells that the number belongs to the person.
At that time, her husband and her communication and sex life were no different from before. Occasionally she would be jealous because of these details, but she felt that it was fun, so she did not go into these things afterwards.Then, I said to her: \\\"You must talk to your husband now, because it is possible that the girl is now pregnant.\\\"The client hesitated at the time and did not answer.
The client didn\\u0027t showdown with her husband at best time.but her husband took the initiative to find her showdown. Because the case is a very simple person, without a lot of scheming and finesse, so when facing this matter, she just directly expressed her feelings and hysterics to express her pain. In the end, she did not solve this relationship well
After one month, she came to me, asked to buy two adjustment package service. I was surprised when she came back -- why did she keep disappearing? Now, she says, she divorced and became a single mother of two children. She turned down an apartment offered by her ex-husband in exchange for custody of her two children -- what a brave mother!
So she decided to look for work again, and now works at a private bilingual preschool center, where she makes dolls and blankets out of wool in her spare time to reward outstanding children. Her handiwork is so delicate that many parents will also come to her to buy dolls or DIY materials. With these two incomes, she supports two children in elementary school and payment of the family.
She used to rely on her husband\\u0027s life, and her life is focused on her husband and children without herself. But now that she can live like this on her own, she finds it hard to believe who she was before,The children gave her strength, no wonder it is said that maternal love is greater than anything. So the universe works best for the present,it could be worse, but it gives everyone a chance to turn things around. The client strongly urged me to publish her case, she is hoping that all those who encounter difficulties and setbacks can be relieved. Regardless of the statusquo, if you like it or not, you don\\u0027t need to be too persistent or even stunned, because better opportunities and choices are sure to come.