第二十五章 如何化解原生家庭對我們的負麵影響?(2 / 3)

Many people also believe that family members cannot and will not leave them because they are related by blood. Therefore, their hearts and behaviors are more critical of their family members or their closest relatives and their partners, and they take all the love for granted and believe the closest families of friends should bear their negative emotions and stress.

Of course, there are also some cases which the family of origin gives them wrong ideas and leads them to go in the wrong direction in life. Such as the case we are going to share today.

The client here thinks her marriage is a failure and she hopes to adjust her family\\u0027s energy through the Yuan Chen Palace. I\\u0027m quite surprised to hear about that. Why did the failure of your marriage cause you to adjust your family instead of yourself?

It seems illogical that the client adjusts her marriage or family\\u0027s energy instead of her own. When I entered her Yuan Chen Palace, I saw the pure bottle Avalokitesvara sitting in the hall of the gods. Pure bottle Avalokitesvara represents unconditional giving to others,constantly giving, constantly watering others -- which means she is a compassionate person, always love to give.

Then I saw a lot of things in the part of her umbilical chakra --

which represents the energy of the family of origin. From her gods\\u0027hall to the living room, the furnishings and the arrangement of tables and chairs show that her umbilical wheel has a large number of stuck points.

When I saw the atmosphere of the hall of the gods and the living room of the client, I realized that there was no logic error in the case.

She knew very well where her problem was, so her marriage was not happy, but the stuck point was in the native family.

After understanding her situation, because of the remote adjustment, I asked the assistant to help me asking the marriage of the client (only the original family could not really solve the marriage stuck point). The case is very cooperative and told us more problems and areas that need adjustment.

From the details of the case of the Yuan Chen Palace, the original family of the case is full of majesty, and the parents are more strict with the children. This \\\"strictness\\\" means that no matter what the situation, you will discipline your child as you wish. At the same time,I will see that the relationship between the client and the parents in the kitchen is very far apart. The communication and connection between these three family members are very little. They only remembered it occasionally to say a word to the other persons. This kind of interpersonal maintenance is very weak.

Since the client is over 40 years old and her parents are over 70, I adjusted the communication energy between the client and her parents, considering the elderly need the company and care of their children more in their later years.

It seems that from childhood to adulthood, her parents believed parents are people who sat in a high hall, naturally superior to their children, so they never really communicated with her closely and whole-heartedly. The client rarely felt protected or loved. Nor did her parents felt cared for or protected when she became an adult.