第4章 Our Pursuit of Happiness (1)(1 / 3)

·Anonymous·

We

chase

after

it,when

it

is

waiting

all

about

us.

“Are

you

happy?”I

asked

my

brother,Ian,one

day.“Yes.

No.

It

depends

on

what

you

mean,”he

said.

“Then

tell

me,”I

asked,“when

was

the

last

time

you

think

you

were

happy?”

“April

1967,”he

said.

It

served

me

right

for

putting

a

serious

question

to

someone

who

has

joked

his

way

through

life.

But

Ian’s

answer

reminded

me

that

when

we

think

about

happiness,we

usually

think

of

something

extraordinary,a

pinnacle

of

sheer

delight-and

those

pinnacles

seem

to

get

rarer

the

older

we

get.

For

a

child,happiness

has

a

magical

quality.

I

remember

making

hide-outs

in

newly

cut

hay,playing

cops

and

robbers

in

the

woods,getting

a

speaking

part

in

the

school

play.

Of

course,kids

also

experience

lows,but

their

delight

at

such

peaks

of

pleasure

as

winning

a

race

or

getting

a

new

bike

is

unreserved.

In

the

teenage

years

the

concept

of

happiness

changes.

Suddenly

it’s

conditional

on

such

things