第4章 Our Pursuit of Happiness (1)(3 / 3)

had

the

house

to

myself.

Then

I

spent

an

uninterrupted

morning

writing,which

I

love.

When

the

kids

came

home,I

enjoyed

their

noise

after

the

quiet

of

the

day.

Later,peace

descended

again,and

my

husband

and

I

enjoyed

another

pleasure-intimacy.

Sometimes

just

the

knowledge

that

he

wants

me

can

bring

me

joy.

You

never

know

where

happiness

will

turn

up

next.

When

I

asked

friends

what

made

them

happy,some

mentioned

seemingly

insignificant

moments.“I

hate

shopping,”one

friend

said.“but

there’s

a

clerk

who

always

chats

and

really

cheers

me

up.”Another

friend

loves

the

telephone“Every

time

it

rings,I

know

someone

is

thinking

about

me.”

I

get

a

thrill

from

driving.

One

day

I

stopped

to

let

a

school

bus

turn

onto

a

side

road.

The

driver

grinned

and

gave

me

the

thumbs

up

sign.

We

were

two

allies

in

a

world

of

mad

motorists.

It

made

me

smile.

We

all

experience

moments

like

these.

Too

few

of

us

register

them

as

happiness.