Wearehopelesscreaturesofcomfort.Welikehavingandaccumulatingthings.Whetheroneadmitstoitornot,toacertaindegree,wealltrytokeepupwith“theJones”.Weworksowecanpayourrents,mortgages,creditcarddebts,schoolloans,carpayments...thelistgoesonandon.Andatsomepoint,werealize,thatasidefromhavingmostofwhatwewant,westillaren’thappy.Nowsincewe’velearnedtoadapttonewstandardswhichwe’vecreatedforourselves,wefindthatwehavelesstime,lesspatience,lesssleep,whichequatestomorestress,moreworryandmoreaggravation.So,ishappinesshonestlyjustcomprisedof“things”?
Sometimes,wevirtuallytradeourlivesfornotonlybasicnecessities,butforexcessiveitemsandservicesaswell.Webecomesoobsessedwithfindinghappiness,thatwelosesightofthefactthathappinessiswithin—always.Certainlyyou’veheardofindividualstryingto“findthemselves”,or“rediscoverthemselves”.Thereasontheyareattemptingtheseinnovativeapproachesisbecausetheyareseekinginnerhappiness.Butthepointhasbeenmissed:Happinessisalreadythere.
Disappointmentsandtragediesinlifewillcomeandgo,buthappinessneverleavesyou.Thehuman’scapacitytoberesilienttotrialsisunfathomable.Wecanloseourjobs,butbegratefulforourspouses.Wecanloseourhomestonature,butbethankfultobealive.