第19章 Man Is a Lonely Island(1 / 1)

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howwonderfulareislands!islandsinspace,likethisoneicometo,ringedaboutbymilesofwater,linkedbynobridges,nocables,notelephones.anislandfromtheworldandtheworld’slife.islandsintime,likethisshortvacationofmine.thepastandthefuturearecutoff:onlythepresentremains.oneliveslikeachildorasaintintheimmediacyofhereandnow.everyday,everyact,isanisland,washedbytimeandspace,andhasanisland’scompletion.people,too,becomelikeislandsinsuchanatmosphere,self-contained,wholeandserene;respectingotherpeople’ssolitude,notintrudingontheirshores,standingbackinreverencebeforethemiracleofanotherindividual.“nomanisanisland,”saidjohndonne.ifeelweareallislands—inacommonsea.

weareall,inthelastanalysis,alone.andthisbasicstateofsolitudeisnotsomethingwehaveanychoiceabout.itis,asthepoetrilkesays,“notsomethingthatonecantakeorleave”.wearesolitary.wemaydeludeourselvesandactasthoughthiswerenotso,yes,eventobeginbyassumingit.“naturally,”hegoesontosay,“wewillturngiddy.”

weseemsofrightenedtodayofbeingalonethatweneverletithappen.eveniffamily,friendsandmoviesshouldfail,thereisstilltheradioortelevisiontofillupthevoid.women,whousedtocomplainofloneliness,needneverbealoneanymore.wecandoourhouseworkwithsoap-operaheroesatourside.evenday-dreamingwasmorecreativethanthis;itdemandedsomethingofoneselfanditfedtheinnerlife.nowinsteadofplantingoursolitudewithourdreamblossoms,we

chokethespacewithcontinuousmusic,chatterandcompanionshiptowhichwedonotevenlisten.itissimplytheretofillthevacuum.whenthenoisestopsthereis