Albert tossed1 the papers on my desk--his eyebrows knit into a straight line as he glared at me.

"What's wrong?" I asked.

He jabbed2 a finger at the proposal. "Next time you want to change anything, ask me first," he said.

How dare he treat me like that, I thought. I had changed one long sentence, and corrected grammar, something I thought I was paid to do.

It's not that I hadn't been warned. Other women who had worked my job before me called Albert names I couldn't repeat. One coworker took me aside the first day. "He's personally responsible for two different secretaries leaving the firm," she whispered.

As the weeks went by, I grew to despise Albert. His actions made me question much that I believed in, such as turning the other cheek and loving your enemies. Albert quickly slapped a verbal insult on any cheek turned his way.

One day another of his episodes left me in tears. I stormed into his office, prepared to lose my job if needed, but not before I let the man know how I felt. I opened the door and Albert glanced up. "What?" he asked abruptly.

Suddenly I knew what I had to do. After all, he deserved it.

I sat across from him and said calmly, "Albert, the way you've been treating me is wrong. I've never had anyone speak to me that way. it's wrong, and I can't allow it to continue."

Albert snickered3 nervously and leaned back in his chair. I closed my eyes briefly. God help me, I prayed.

"I want to make you a promise, I will be a friend," I said. "I will treat you as you deserve to be treated, with respect and kindness. You deserve that. Everybody does." I slipped out of the chair and closed the door behind me.

Albert avoided me the rest of the week. Proposals and letters appeared on my desk while I was at lunch, and my corrected versions were not seen again. I brought cookies to the office one day and left a batch4 on his desk. Another day Ileft a note. "Hope your day is going great," it read.