ThishadaprofoundeffectonthedebateovergayrightsintheUnitedStates.Gaypeople’scommitmenttoeducatingtheirrelativesandfriendsabouthomosexualityandtheirwillingnesstoconfrontthemabouttheirbigotryandmisconceptionsresultedincountlessmomentsofstruggleanddebateinfamilies,workplaces,andstudentdormitoriesacrossthecountry.Cumulatively,gaypeople’ssuccessinchangingtheattitudesofthepeopleclosesttothemplayedadecisiveroleinshiftingpublicopiniontowardsupportforgayrights.Surveysshowthatpeoplewhoknowgaypeoplearetwiceaslikelytosupporttheirequalityaspeoplewhodonotknowgaypeople.
Athirdmajorcauseoftheincreasingacceptanceofgaypeopleresulteddirectlyfromtheirgrowingopenness.Fiftyyearsago,onereasonmanyAmericansfearedhomosexualswasthattheybelievedgaypeoplestoodoutsideofthefamilyandthreateneditsstability.Gaypeople’sgrowingopennessledmanyheterosexualstolearnthattheirownsonsanddaughtersweregay,anditmadeallAmericansmorefamiliarwiththerealitiesofgaylife.Manyheterosexualshaverecognizedhowmanygaypeopleestablishstable,lovingrelationships,howmanygaycouplesareraisingchildren,andhowdeeplytheywanttoprovidesecurityandstabilitytotheirpartnersandchildren.
MostofthedebatesoverhomosexualityintheUnitedStatesinrecentyearshaveresultedfromgaypeople’squesttogainlegalrecognitionoftheirrelationships.Manygaycoupleshaveevenaskedfortherighttogetmarriedbecausetheywishtosecuretherights,benefits,stability,andprotectionsfortheirfamiliesthatmarriageandmarriagealoneconveys.Gaypeople’scampaigntowintherighttomarryandprotecttheirfamilieshasproducedamajordebateintheUnitedStates.Butfromahistoricalperspective,oneofthatdebate’smostimportantconsequencesisthatithasshownAmericanshowcommittedmanygaypeoplearetotheirfamilies.