True love is we stick together in“thick and thin”，especially when it’s thin，when it’s troublesome. Then we should really bridge over the“troubled water”. That’s what they say in English. But most of us fail the test，to ourselves，not to our partners. He might leave you； he might stay with you，because you’re nice or not nice. But you fail yourself. You leave yourself. You leave the noblest being that you really are. So we should check up on this to our family members or whomever that is beloved and dear to us. Most of the time in critical situations，we just turn our backs and that is not good.
Of course we have our anger，our frustrations，because our partners are not as loving as usual，or whomever that is； but he or she is in a different situation. At that time，she or he is in mental suffering. It’s just as bad or even worse than physical suffering. For physical suffering you can take a pill or you can have an injection and it stops or at least temporarily stops，and you feel the effect right away； or at least if people are in physical suffering，everyone sympathizes with them.
But when they are in mental anguish，and we pound them more on that，and we turn our backs and become cold and indifferent，that is even crueler，even worse. That person will be swimming alone in suffering. And especially they trust us as the next of kin，the next person，the one that they think they can rely on in times of need； and then at that time，we just turn around and are snobbish，because they didn’t treat us nice so we just want to revenge. That’s not the time. You can revenge later，when he’s in better shape. Just slap him.