“Please.”Please，like thank you，is easy to forget to say，but it too is very important in a relationship. Because it is another way of letting your partner know you don’t take him for granted and that his time and effort count.
第一章 An Ingenious Love Letter (2)
“You are great.”Do you know that this sentence can make him feel good about himself all day? Now that you know how nice it makes him feel to be complimented，you should try to do it as often as you can. As an added bonus，he will begin paying compliments to you more often. This is not surprising since，experts say，compliments are a two-way street. So the more compliments you give，the more you get. Often couples will think nice things about each other but not verbalize their thoughts because they’re just not in the habit of doing so. But when one of them starts，the other will pick up on the cue and begin doing the same.
“I love you.”in a new way，a small variation such as“I love you more each day”can make a big difference in how you feel about each other. When you say“I love you”the exact same way over and over，your spouse may start to discount it. On the other hand，a fresh phrase can help keep the relationship fresh. For instance，you can expressed your love for him by saying“I’m so glad you’re in my life.”I’m sure he will be really impressed and touched，and you two will feel closer.
創造婚姻奇跡的小字眼
斯帕克
經常用“寶貝”、“甜心”之類親昵語，是婚姻永葆鮮活的一種小但很重要的方法。這些親昵的詞語能讓人深切感受到對方的愛意，也能感受到自己在其心中的特殊地位。另外也有一些字眼能讓愛人體會到自己在你心中的重要分量，感到你有多麼愛他，多麼欣賞他。
“謝謝你。”我們總會在朋友或同事的幫忙後表示感謝。然而，有時候卻忘了感謝我們最愛的人。夫妻間時而會忘記彼此道謝，但這卻是一個良好的習慣，在愛的成長路途中，是不可缺少的。隻有自己所做的得到了對方的認同和欣賞，才會樂意給予更多。彼此給予的越多，愛就會增值越多。