第11章 The Paradox of Happiness (5)(1 / 3)

·Timothy·

What

is

the

definition

of“happiness?”Is

it

material

wealth

filled

with

fancy

cars,a

dream

house,extravagant

furs

and

jewelry?

Or

is

happiness

simply

having

a

roof

over

your

head?

Food

in

the

fridge?

Having

a

child?

A

pet?

A

swimming

pool?

A

designer

Gucci

bag?

Parents?

Grandchildren?

Love?

Money?

The

perfect

job?

Winning

the

Lottery?

According

to

the

American

Heritage

Dictionary,“happiness”is

derived

from

the

Middle

English

word

hap-meaning“Luck.”But

does

happiness

really

have

anything

to

do

with“luck?”Based

on

this

description,one

could

assume

that

if

you

avoided

a

fatal

traffic

accident

but

got

fired

by

coming

late

to

work,you

would

be

filled

with

“happiness?”Is

it

luck

or

what

you

make

of

it?

Maybe,“happiness”is

exactly

defined

by

its

indirect

alias:

happiness-perhaps,happiness

is

in

fact

defined

by

the

fortune

that

we

permit

to

happen.

Do

you

recall

a

time-let’s

say

when

you

were

about

5

years

old-what

defined

happiness

back

then?

Was

it

getting

a

puppy

for

Christmas?

Or

maybe,you

were

a

child

of

divorce;and

all

you

wanted

was

for

Mom

and

Dad

to

get

back

together

again?

Then

as

you

got

older,you

were

hoping

that

someone

would

ask

you

to

the

prom

that

would’ve

made

your

day,maybe

your

life

for

the

moment.

During

college,good

grades

made

you

happy,but

it

was

short-lived.

Because

in

the

real

world,you

had

to

look

for

a

job,and

competition

was

stark.

It’s

an

employer’s

world

you

thought.

But

then,you

got

the

perfect

job-now

you

could

be