第11章 The Paradox of Happiness (5)(2 / 3)

happy-or

could

you?

Life

requires

more

than

just

what

we

want.

Inevitably,one

must

understand

to

truly

find“happiness,”he

must

make

his

own

happiness“happen”.

Sounds

a

bit

redundant,but

truthfully,there

is

no

set

guidelines

that

will

bring

one

happiness.

There

is

no“magic

wand”we

can

wave

to

bring

joy

into

our

lives.

Human

nature

thrives

on

the

thrill

of

the

chase.

We

dream

and

we

hope

for

the

next

big

break-it

is

the

grand

adventure

of

living.

We

are

hopeless

creatures

of

comfort.

We

like

having

and

accumulating

things.

Whether

one

admits

to

it

or

not,to

a

certain

degree,we

all

try

to

keep

up

with“the

Jones”.

We

work

so

we

can

pay

our

rents,mortgages,credit

card

debts,school

loans,car

payments...

the

list

goes

on

and

on.

And

at

some

point,we

realize,that

aside

from

having

most

of

what

we

want,we

still

aren’t

happy.

Now

since

we’ve

learned

to

adapt

to

new

standards

which

we’ve

created

for

ourselves,we

find

that

we

have

less

time,less

patience,less

sleep,which

equates

to

more

stress,more

worry

and

more

aggravation.

So,is

happiness

honestly

just

comprised

of“things”?

Sometimes,we

virtually

trade

our

lives

for

not

only

basic

necessities,but

for

excessive

items

and

services

as

well.

We

become

so

obsessed

with

finding

happiness,that

we

lose

sight

of

the

fact

that

happiness

is

within-always.

Certainly

you’ve

heard

of

individuals

trying

to“find

themselves”,or“rediscover

themselves”.

The

reason

they

are

attempting

these

innovative

approaches

is

because

they

are

seeking

inner

happiness.

But